completely agree so many people fail to be able to flip the way they think.. assume everything is about them.. when it is never about them.. it is our own issues, and we are working on them.. i am like this also..

I hate parties, crowds. I just want to observe. I was thinking this last night. my bf took me to where he works i thought it was a food event, ended up being a party. I already was feeling shitty and it just amplified it, theni feel anti social. Luckily no one bothered me, but i still had no desire to be there.

I never will understand why people just can't respet others when they say no or say mean things such as "stop being so selfish" . These saying are why i prefer to be alone a lot.