dating is hard, i hate it. In the past everyone has given me advice, and the only thing that works, is the right place at the right time, and the right person there. Then be yourself. It seems so simple and i think dating in my opinion is one of the hardest things we as humans do. Finding that one person that you have a connection with, a real connection is like finding a needle in a haystack. Yet people seem to do it all the time. Who knows, I was single for so long because it is easier than dating. I am dating a guy now, and sometimes i wonder if my single life was easier.