Hahaha as soon as i read the title i was thinking is there a contest.. i loathe people who sit back, judgeand criticize other on their story, life and thoughts.. it is why i often put this is my opinion.. because we are just all trying to figure this out!!!! Ok let me read on.. apparently theres a bee in my bonnet for you.. or whomever is fingerpointing and being mean to you!!! We got ur back.