I admit I sometimes I fail to connect to some also, but reading this you reminded me to check in with a few people. I have a couple of friends who we can go months without talking and then when we do it is like no time has passed at all!

I also for so long gave so much now I have begun to find a balance, if i message and am always the first, they will fade away. I try not to make it transactional, but sometimes its too much to always give.