i agree.. i love first dates where the guy actually planned something creative, even if its just something free and silly, it shows he put in effort. One of my favorite dates was a guy took me roller blading! i loved it, it was date 2 or 3, but still.. it lets you loosen up and get to know the real person. Not just how they take their coffee. I agree coffee dates suck!

The first date with my guy was for ice cream, and walking around the town. Since i was new here!!

Still waiting for updates with the last guy!!