I have too asked people what is so nice about ____ and I always get a response that is very aggressive ha, i challenged their beliefs or so they thought, when i really just wanted a new descriptive word, not a blanket statement!!
I completely agree.. the surface stuff never flies for me.. I am learning spanish and so far i can only talk surfacee speak.. and it is very challenging. I always want to know more, but don't know how to ask it yet.. but i will soon!!!
I live in a town that 20 years ago was taken over by the guerillas, i cant wait to speak to someone and them tell me their story!!