I love this!!! it really is like anything, you have to just show up.. Congrats on 3 weeks!! yess you can do it. I never like AA either, i was like you i said, i am a grown ass woman letting alcohol control me, and then i quit. I used to drink soda with lime at the bar too.. no one ever knew. Now after 2 years i don't care.. but in the beginning it is a lifesaver.. helps avoid the questions and the judgment.
Congrats, you have a huge sober community here also, feel free to reach out to us.. i see Michele (the sober vegan yogi) is here too.. shes's amazing also!!