I relate to this so much. Everyone thinks i am so spontaneous.. i just dont tell them all the inner workings of my plan a, b, and c.

Making them think i am uncalculatd risk taker is always more fun especially because everyone thinks i just go with the wind, I do. But that wind was planned.

In my head i dont do spreadsheets tho haha! I completely understand the prompting others to make their decisions. I used to give advice now i listen and ask questions.. I am not here to solve their problem, yet ask provoking questions that they can think they solved on their own.

My grandmother always said, be the neck not the head :) great read as always..