I think having one parent at home, either one is better than them being at daycare, or i can hope! I agree that it makes sense for the one who makes more to be the bread winner regardless of gender. If that is the choice that your family has decided. I know that my brother would love to be a stay at home dad!! His wife tells him no! So they both work, and the kids go to daycare, even though she makes more than enough for him to stay home. He has always been a natural home maker... prob cuz he had 3 girl siblings!