I used to be the queen of giving unsolicited advice, and then one day i just stopped. I realized that it was not my place, if they ask I will give them advice with a caveat, you asked, and i will also not be hurt if they hate it. Especially to my married siblings, if they ask, i always end it with, however I am not married and do not know the in's and out's of your personal life, so the choice is yours and i will support you either way.

It has taken me years to zip my trap. Now i just write about advice or lack there of haha!!