i was raised in a house full of smoke also, i hated it as soon as i could move out i did, i was so happy when all the laws passed for no smoking in public!! We had people over at our house and one of my bf's friends was smoking in the house at 3 am.. i got up and said no smoking inside.. apparently that was rude he told everyone i yelled at him.. i said i dont care, its my house, my rules, you can smoke outside.
everyone here smokes but only outside. and here they have smoking kills and black lungs on the packages and they still smoke!!