Jack sounds like a Jack-ass.. I don´t like when men or women have a ¨i only date this criteria¨. It really annoys me also. Especially when in my opinion personality is way more important, than vanity metrics. I also do not feel bad he is sad and lonely, as it seems he has made that choice by having such strict criteria, i can only image what else is on his list. I had a friend once and she also had a list and no one could live up to her expectations... I think people need to be seen at a deeper level. yea I clearly would have been trigger as well, and would probably distance myself from him.