Oh i would of been pissed.. and i ask..why do we have to forgive everyone? We are humans we are not perfect. My first college roommate stole my underwear.. bras and lotions and denied it. I didnt really confront her i just got a safe🤣.. she eventually dropped out. I still hate the bitch.. i think.. dont be so hard on yourself.... life is not what so many write and perfect.. its hard.. ugly and if you dont want to forgive dont!! Be kind to yourself instead about it..... shes prob still the same miseable thief just grown🤷‍♀️