omg.. yes! I can only tell you my experience, but so many people want you to tell them what to do.. I think its so they can have someone to blame if it doesnt work out! but thats just my opinion! oooh i just got a story idea! Thanks for this comment!!! yep not obsessing is hard also! I struggle between wanting to write what will make me $ and then writing what i want which is def not going to pay the bills but eh.. ill have faith! (sometimes!!)