sometimes you have a connection online and not in person. Same thing happened to me. I talked to a guy even had a phone video chat and i liked him. he was cute, yet in person there was no chemistry. He kissed me a lot, and i was uncomfortable and just kind of didnt respond and it died.. i guess i did kind of the same thing haha! it happens. its dating, and we are human and not perfect. However, yay for the controversy and they are helping the article do well which means $$ congrats!