sounds like my relationship with my ex husband.. he was cheating, lying and i was the one who recorded him to have proof so i could file for divorce, because he wouldn't let me, since we applied for him to get US citizenship, it was a huge deal, he ended up getting residency even tho we go divorced. He denied cheating, he stayed over at girls houses, told me i was crazy, made me feel like i was losing my mind. I was a mess, one of the toughest times of my life.

Then a few years later i also found out he was trying to defraud the IRS.. becaue he put my bank account down to pay his taxes, and he told me he thought i had closed it when i found out because i got an email from the IRS!!!

I am so glad you are in a better place now.