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The Number One Question I Get About Traveling Alone: Do You Get Lonely?
So do you?
“Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life’s cruelest irony.”
― Douglas Coupland,
When I decided to start traveling solo, one of the most common questions was, “aren’t you going to get lonely” what if you get lonely” “don’t you wish you had someone to go with you.”
I still get these questions when people find out I travel alone. It’s such a simple response. No, I do not get lonely.
No, I do not want anyone to travel with me, and if I need social interaction, I will check into a social hostel. Yet do not confuse my need to interact with loneliness; it is not.
Most of the time, I think, well, I should probably not be such a hermit and interact, and after a few days, I can retreat into my shell.
I have never been the type of person that needs companionship from anyone. I have had times when I have been more alone in a relationship than I have experienced in the past four years. It is not that…
