what a story. I think you have a lot of stories to tell.. and i will look forward to reading them....

I am glad you moved your father and it seemed to be better for him, it is true.. some people just are not ready to go. It is a lot of factors even if you are giving them every opportunity.

We made the decision if my grandmother died before my grandfather we would not tell him.

He died last april, and she is still alive.. I think men take it worse than the women. My grandmother just said ok.. and that was it, but the thought of my grandmother dying made my grandfather cry at the thought of it.

We do bleed the same, and so many experience the same emotions, it is just how we react to them that sets us apart. It's such a world of the unknown.

Thank you for sharing your experiences with me.. and i look forward to reading them on your blog:)