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Why Do People Put You Down But Say They Are Supportive?
You are either all in or all out, do not dance on this line.
August will mark my fourth anniversary since I quit my job to explore the great unknown. I know, so dramatic; I quit my job to travel.
Wandering into the woods is better than dreaming about it — SAB
When someone says they have been “nomadic” or living abroad for this long, the first question I would NOT ask them is, “so when are you coming back home?”.
The question is much different than when you will come to visit us, “ya bum.” Since I return to the US yearly to visit friends and family, my plan was never to disappear from life as I knew it.
It was to live differently, live my way, and figure out what life is all about, like a science experiment. What are the pros of one vs. the other?
Which do I feel better doing? The most important question!
The snarky comments were common in the first six months; they went something like this. “Ok, Sara, you have proved to yourself and us that you can do…