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Why Do People Put You Down But Say They Are Supportive?

You are either all in or all out, do not dance on this line.

Sara Burdick
6 min readApr 4, 2022
How I deal with haters, I walk away — to Thailand!

August will mark my fourth anniversary since I quit my job to explore the great unknown. I know, so dramatic; I quit my job to travel.

Wandering into the woods is better than dreaming about it — SAB

When someone says they have been “nomadic” or living abroad for this long, the first question I would NOT ask them is, “so when are you coming back home?”.

The question is much different than when you will come to visit us, “ya bum.” Since I return to the US yearly to visit friends and family, my plan was never to disappear from life as I knew it.

Family vacation 2021 in New Hampshire!!

It was to live differently, live my way, and figure out what life is all about, like a science experiment. What are the pros of one vs. the other?

Which do I feel better doing? The most important question!

The snarky comments were common in the first six months; they went something like this. “Ok, Sara, you have proved to yourself and us that you can do

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Sara Burdick
Sara Burdick

Written by Sara Burdick

I quit the rat race after working as a nurse for 16 years. Travel and Storyteller. I live in Colombia. https://substack.com/@saraburdick

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