YES!!!!!!!!!! they always say when you . when this.. when that..WTF maybe stop putting pressure on us and let us live our life as we are at this moment. I can not believe NYC denied you, they have the most lenient outlook on this I thought!

I lived in LA for 15 years! It is so fun, perfect weather for toads and giant lizards!!

Thank you so much for commenting.. Since every single person has felt the same in the comments, we can all live together in a childfree nursing home!

I think not having children and contributing to this messed up world is not selfish. we have one life to live, with no guarantees! Exactly as u said.