yes! this is spot on.. i do not have children, nor want them. I still have a family, here with my bf and dog, and a big ole family of siblings who all have a ton of kids.

I don't think it is selfish either, and agree i have heard this my entire life. If people want them great, if people do not want them also great, we can all decide on our own the best choice for our lives. I spend an hour with a child and that is enough for me.